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Sonny Louie
14836 Bodley Square
Centreville, VA 20120
08 October 2005 1058 EDT
08 October 2005 1058 EDT
I saw my big sister for the first time in about a month yesterday. Jane had invited me to go see a movie with her...I didn't know who else was going and gave her an ambiguous answer by not answering her at all and changing the topic to something - I forget what. Then I went to the bathroom and sat down to read some article from Psychology Today when I heard the door open and shut. By the time I stepped back into my house, I realized that Jane was gone. I spend a little bit of time tidying up the place for company tomorrow (today now) and noticed a few things I wanted to give to Yenny. So I give her a call and she tells me that Jane is over there. It all makes sense now. So she invites me to the movie too and this time I reply with a yes, knowing full well that I have so much more that I want to accomplish here at home. But I hadn't seen her in so long, I figured that I could put off cleaning up around the house for a little longer.

Right before I hang up, I ask if they had eaten yet since there was an hour before showtime. She tells me that they're eating Chipotle right now - "Vargas!" I say to myself. That's okay though. I ended up having a nice bowl of hi protein crunch cereal before I leave and we ended up calling Papa John's for some midnight pizza after the movie. The movie itself - Serenity, btw - was pretty good even though I'd never watched the tv show. I had more fun afterwards hanging out at Yenny's though. I caught up a little with my sisses, the friends, the dog, some video games, and we ended up spending a few hours playing an interesting board game whose name I forget at the moment. I eventually came home though. It was around 0300h and I just puttered around on the computer for an hour before finally deciding to go to bed.

I realized something this morning though...something that I never thought I would say. But in all honesty, I think that I am bored with the internet. *gasp*

No, say it ain't so. I'm not exactly sure when it happened, but I find myself just bouncing back and forth on Fantasy Football sites these days. And it's not that I care so much about what's going on. I just don't have anything else to do. My usual AIM friends aren't nearly as talkative any more and I talk to most of them on the phone now more than anything else. My porn collecting days ended about four or five years ago, so that's not so appealing any more. The blogs have gotten a little stale, though I still keep up with about a dozen of them these days. E-mail takes a few minutes, but it's nothing to write home about. And then there's the online shopping, but that's not as much fun when you don't have any money. So yeah, getting a little bored with the internet. I even started looking at DSL because I was considering cancelling the cable; but I'm not quite ready to make any drastic moves right now. It may just be a phase and I wouldn't want to do anything I'd regret later, you know?

06 October 2005 2323 EDT
06 October 2005 2323 EDT
I had a chance to catch up with Tommy on AIM this afternoon. It's the first exchange I'd had with him in maybe a month or two. I forget if we'd talked since I'd gotten back. Anyway, he just finished up his summer at Hatteras and moved to Richmond with his brother. Other than that, things are pretty much the same. Things don't tend to change much. It was really nice to hear from him though. Hopefully we'll get a chance to get together before long. When he was living here, we used to go out to the OG all the time...just kinda pick random nights and go out. We used to have random study nights too. It helped me to keep on track. I definitely miss that.

This evening, I ended up taking some time to head back to Reston to do some studying/work with Ben. He was doing his usually test prep stuff and I was working on writing a test for my class while sipping on some fru-frooey drinks over at the Starbucks by his house. We had actually intended to meet up somewhere new this time; but after both of us got lost, we decided to play it safe before it got too late and everything closed down.

Dinner tonight = Soy Flaxseed Chips + Salsa.

06 October 2005 0006 EDT
06 October 2005 0006 EDT
I always start off the night with so much to write about; but then I usually get started on my fantasy football stuff and get sidetracked. But yeah, let's start off with the topic of psychology. I got a call from Lenny as I was leaving class today...or maybe I called him. I forget. Either way, we were talking and then I ended up stopping by the parents' again to kinda sit down with him and Steph as they were grading papers. It was a good discussion we had. We started off with wedding stuff and then went on to relationship stuff and family and school. We were just talking about all of the problems and whatnot. Anyway, it was on my drive home that I started thinking to myself how it must be nice to be a psychologist. You spend so much time talking to people and analyzing them and their problems that you rarely have time to reflect on yourself and all of your own problems. Wouldn't that be nice? I don't know. It'd be interesting to see how dysfunctional psychologists' personal lives are.

Anyway, kids are funny. Have I ever said that before? A few kids noticed the scratches on my hand/arm today in class and asked me what happened. I told them that I fell down. They laughed a little, so I clarified that I fell down playing football. So then one of them responds saying that I looked more like a golf player than football. Interesting comment, I think to myself. I know I put on a real nerdy persona at school - I know, big stretch - so it doesn't surprise me that they have this particular impression of their physics teacher. To make up for that comment, though, it is followed with something along the lines of, "but you have really broad shoulders. What position do you play, running back?" I don't know. I thought it was funny...especially since it came during our conversation about the scientific method and we were exploring why it was that dogs lifted their legs up to pee. Good times teaching at school...you all don't know what you're missing.

04 October 2005 2310 EDT
04 October 2005 2310 EDT
It was a bit of an eye-opening day today...some interesting convos with the brother, the sisters, and the friend. I've been a bit overwhelmed these last few days with just how much that's been going on. Some of you may have noticed that I didn't even update yesterday because of it. That's the first time I've missed an update in a while. So what's had me so busy? Well, number one on the stress list was that I had been slacking on planning Lenny's bachelor party. His fiance even called me up during the weekend and left me a message asking about it. I feel really bad. I didn't even get back to her and then Lenny called Saturday night and we talked. On top of that, I had a lot of work at school with interims due today and a meeting with my vice principal where I had to have my self-evaluation and a typed list of goals for him. Add to that a few hours of reading for class and a short paper that I had to write after squeezing in the reunion picnic on Sunday, along with the usual stress of the three-hour Monday class at Mason after an already long day at school. When that final bell rang at school today, it was as if a huge weight were lifted off of my shoulders.

I'm sitting here thinking about all of this right now and thinking back to a conversation I just had with my sister about our family. She was upset with everyone, I think...me included. But I'll be honest. At this point, I realize how off-center I am right now, and that kinda helps me to be more understanding when things start going wrong around here. Lenny's probably under more stress than anyone right now, and I'm definitely going to cut him a lot of slack right too. I mean, looking at Lenny, you probably don't realize he's under stress because he kinda has this dazed look all the time as if he's oblivious and nothing affects him. At the same time, I know what it's like going through your first year of teaching. So on top of having his interims due like me, he's going through a lot of the teaching stuff for the first time...plus he's got back-to-school night coming up. Then he's getting married and doing all of the plans for that while trying to figure out where he's going to be living after he gets married. There's just a lot of stuff going on. I don't know. I kinda feel bad for the guy, but envious as well. I wish I had a closer relationship with him though. I think out of all of my siblings, Lenny was always a bit of an outcast. I'm not sure how that happened...whether we forced him out of our little inner circle or whether his personality just pulled him away a little. I think religion might have had something to do with it at one point. And then there were those two years when he quit his job and moved over to China. Whatever it was, our relationship was always a little different than the one I had with my sisters. I mean, I know everyone is different and all, but Lenny is different. Hehe...I hope it doesn't sound like I'm bashing the guy. After all, I love him like a brother.

At the same time, we all have our strengths and weaknesses, and Lenny's strengths haven't always been celebrated and appreciated in our family. Yes, Lenny has lived at home and remained unemployed longer than anyone else in the family. But at the same time, he has accomplished a number of things that none of his siblings have been able to match either...not that this is a competition, but I'm just pointing things out. For instance, he has his graduate degree. He also speaks and writes Chinese better than any of us. He's also somehow convinced someone to marry him. That's definitely a first in our family...one that may go unmatched for a while to come.

So yeah...no real point here. I'm just rambling.

I was supposed to hang out with Ben tonight and we were going to study together. Before that, though, we were going to meet up at the Trader Joe's by his house so that we could do some healthy shopping. Anyway, I was sooo excited about replenishing my supply of soy chips, that I left my house without even bringing my books with me. I didn't notice that I was missing them until I was already 15 minutes down the parkway, though, so there was no use going back home for them. In the end, I just ate a lot of food and got a few questions written for a test for my students. I could at least accomplish that without my books. The studying part of our evening didn't seem to last too long though. After maybe 30 minutes there at Starbucks, we ended up just talking about management and career and a whole bunch of psychological stuff. He's been taking a lot of classes and read a lot of books on the topic - as have I - and it was fun to kinda just bounce ideas off each other. Anyway, it was a good conversation. I think I got to know him a little better if you can imagine that. I mean, we've been friends since high school...about a decade now. But you know how it is with boys...so many of our conversations are centered around football or computers or girls. We don't always get to the serious topics and really get to know what makes each other tick.

So, in summary, it was a good day.

02 October 2005 2308 EDT
02 October 2005 2308 EDT
I'm going to try to make it a quick update today as I try to go on a three day streak of going to bed early. Last night, Lenny actually called me up around 1:00 in the morning. I was in bed already, but it was cool. It's been a while since we talked, and it was good to catch up with him. Of course, it was tough getting back to sleep after that, but it's not like I had a really busy Sunday planned.

I did end up going out to the Marriot Ranch for the reunion picnic with the unit today. There were a couple of random highlights there. Number one, we got paid for it. That was a pleasant surprise. I'm sure the turnout would have been even better if everyone else knew about that. The other part of it happened before I even left the house. My dad had forgotten to bring the directions to the place, so I went back in the house to print them from my computer. Unfortunately, when I did so I left the house without my keys and accidentally locked the front door. On top of that, both of my parents had already gotten in my car and let the doors lock on them. They also didn't bring their copy of the key to my house. So for about twenty minutes while we waited for Jane to arrive and rescue us, not only was I locked out of the house, but my parents were both locked in my car. I guess it could have been worse, but that was pretty ugly.

Anyway, it was great to see a bunch of the guys again. There was a lot of fun stuff set aside for people to do (shuffleboard, horseback riding, etc), but I pretty much spent my five hours there just making small talk and catching up with everyone. I guess that seems kinda uneventful, but I really had a good time. Hmm...you know what? I was just about to say how it'd be nice if the weekends were longer and then I remembered that Columbus day is next Monday...so next weekend will be longer. Fancy that. Sometimes, it pays to work for the G-O-V. I'm so happy now, I don't even care if I lose Fantasy again this weekend.

01 October 2005 2019 EDT
01 October 2005 2019 EDT
I've been on my sofa all afternoon trying to get comfortable while I take my nap in front of the tv as images of the FSU, USC, and Florida games flash across the screen. I can't quite get it right, though, because I've got these grass burns all over my arms and legs. There's one big spot on my left elbow, another on my right wrist and forearm, and another on my right hip and down along my right shin. But it was worth it as we pulled off an awesome win playing flag football on the ellipse again this morning. We were short a girl to start, so the league rules said that we had to play down one boy and a girl. So the whole game was played in a six on eight situation. The other team was huge and they weren't bad...but their quarterback was a little weak and they just ate too much time on the clock. Dave had a couple of big throws early as our first two drives lasted only two or three plays before we got into the endzone on some long passes. I got a nice little pick in the game and caught the game winner on a drag in the endzone to make up for my INT that I threw on a double pass. The INT, btw, should have been a TD, but we won't get into that. Defense was kinda rough, but we stood pretty strong considering that they had seven eligible receivers on every play and we only had six people on defense. But okay...enough about football.

I've definitely gotten my share of sleep so far this weekend. I pulled in about eight hours last night and got another hour or two in napping this afternoon. I'm about to go upstairs and get started on some homework though. I'm so studious, aren't I? But yeah, with the reunion picnic tomorrow, I'll have to finish up my work now if I want to watch football with the guys tomorrow afternoon. The sacrifices I make, you know?

30 September 2005 2251 EDT
30 September 2005 2251 EDT
I didn't stay long after school today. I hung around for long enough clean up and get things settled a little for Monday, and then I was off to go home for a nap. I did that for a few hours and then stuck some laundry in the washer while I worked out for a little bit. After that, I stuck a couple of steaks in the broiler and started the movie for the night.

I first saw Birthday Girl maybe three years ago...after I'd picked it up on one of my DVD splurges at the Blockbuster in University Mall. I used to loiter around there all the time, either by myself after school some nights or with my friends from high school. Anyway, the movie itself is a little hard to explain. If I were to use an analogy, Pretty Woman : prostitutes :: Birthday Girl : clumsy guys who can't talk to girls. Yeah, I think that's a good analogy. Basically, Ben Chaplin plays this bank employee who has pretty much no life and decides to go on the internet to get himself a Russian mail-order bride. Nicole Kidman shows up and they live happily ever after...except it's not quite that easy because she doesn't speak English and ends up causing him to lose his job and a whole bunch of other stuff. Anyway, it's a really good movie. I watch it every once in a while because I feel like I can really relate to his character. Actually, I remember why I picked the movie out that time at Blockbuster. Tommy had rented it and we watched it together. Except when he and I watched it, I fell asleep after the first five minutes and woke up at the credits. The next morning, I ended up watching it by myself. Yeah, I know you don't really care about these random memories that I have, but it makes me happy when I remember things like that. I haven't seen Tommy in nearly two years. I wonder what he's up to these days.

Anyhoo, this weekend'll be kinda busy. Flag football is tomorrow morning and then there's the reunion picnic with all of the National Guard people on Sunday. In between all of that, I need to socialize without spending too much money, watch the Virginia Tech/WVU game, win two fantasy football matches, and do a bunch of reading and homework for my classes. And to top it off, I am even going to go to sleep early. Fancy that.

29 September 2005 2245 EDT
29 September 2005 2245 EDT
It was another long day today. Up at 0500h, I spent the whole day at school until back-to-school night wrapped up around 2130h. I did get a lot of grading and cleaning up done around the classroom though...so that was kinda worth it. I had a lot of fun today too though. With my active kids, I played with clay. I bought some on my way to class yesterday at Joanne's Fabrics. It's just plain modeling clay for them to make a person out of. They just crash a cart and write down observations...just a little Newton's first law kinda exercise. Then I follow up by pulling a tablecloth out from under a place setting...again with Newton's first.

In other news, I get my first paycheck tomorrow. That'll be nice. I've been spending way too much money. When I saw how much I was making though, I was a little disappointed. I thought a 10K payraise would look a lot bigger. But by the time you pull out taxes and retirement all that other stuff, I'm back to where I thought I used to make. After this next month, I think I'm going to be hurting a little. It's very different without the guard paycheck and without people paying rent. That's like an extra thousand dollars of spending money gone. But oh well. A month of cereal and ramen never hurt no one, right? Plus I still have about fifty steaks that I bought from that guy who drove up to my door. That'll last me a month or so as long as I stop myself from going out all the time. Oh, I should probably do my taxes sometime too. I'm bound to get a thousand or two back from that. Note to self...

28 September 2005 2320 EDT
28 September 2005 2320 EDT
Okay, no matter what, I am going to bed early tonight. Not even sodoku is going to stop that. I've scribbled all over Jane's puzzle for the last 20 minutes and made no progress whatsoever. At this point, I am okay with giving up for the sake of my slumber. Class tonight was pretty cool. I forgot to mention that I got an A+ on my paper from last week. I haven't gotten an A+ in school in a long time. Of course, it was a five point assignment, so I'm not quite sure what a plus would mean...but hey, it's a plus.

Anyhoo, tomorrow is back-to-school night, so I am going to pick out my clothes tonight to ensure that I match. Other than that, I spent a bunch of money picking up some straws and balloons and clay and string to help out with some labs/demos in class this next week. I've got a bunch of plates, cups, and utensils to bring in to school tomorrow too. I always love doing that newton's first law demonstration where you pull the tablecloth out from underneath the place setting. I have yet to screw that one up, but there's always a first for anything, right?

I need to work on being a better teacher these days. I'm doing decent with the grading, but I haven't been spending nearly as much time after school planning as I used to when I was over at Mount Vernon. Part of it is a self-preservation mechanism. I promised myself that I wouldn't burn out this year. But at the same time, I could definitely pick up on some things. You see, kids don't think that they're learning unless you give them lots of tests and quizes. Either that or handouts and stuff like that. For some reason, those types of assessments seem to reassure them. If you do an activity or have a discussion in class, that isn't worth anything in their mind. Who cares if they learn anything. It's about the grade, you know? So yeah, I need to work on that a little bit or else they will stop participating in class.

School lunch, on the other hand, is really starting to hit the spot. I don't know why I never ate school lunch over at Mount Vernon, but I'm feeling so much better about my nutrition these days. I mean, school lunch isn't the healthiest thing in the world, but it sure beats loaves of bread and cans of tuna fish when it comes to taste and variety. But hey, I said that I was going to go to sleep early and I meant it. I'll have more tomorrow after I deal with the parents after school. Wish me luck.

27 September 2005 2200 EDT
27 September 2005 2200 EDT
You know, instead of blogging these last few nights, I probably could have written my paper for my Wednesday night class instead. I'm going to say that I'll do that tonight, but we'll really see about that come morning. Oh, and laundry is on the plate tonight too.

Today, I stayed after school for quite a while, first for the hour-long faculty meeting which I was falling asleep at and then to grade a stack of papers in preparation for interim reports going out next week. After that, I went over to go for a 2.5 + 0.5 mile run with Ben over in his neighborhood before cleaning up and heading over to Ruby's for dinner. Interestingly enough, one of my new students was working there. I figure the Reston Town Center is going to be like that this year, so I may not be frequenting it as often for now. Anyway, enough chitchat for now. I've got a lot of work to do this week and sleep wouldn't be so bad either.

26 September 2005 2338 EDT
26 September 2005 2338 EDT
I probably talked more in class today (student-mode at Mason) than I have in a long time. Sometimes, when I'm doing that, I wonder what my classmates are thinking. One of the issues with the class is that the professor hadn't been doing much in terms of instructing. Instead, she kinda just provides general outlines of the material that we've already read. So before and after class every day, I'll talk to classmates and kinda just listen to them complain about the class. It's interesting. And since we end at 10:00 every night - no matter what we cover in class - I don't feel so bad about talking a lot. I think everyone is starting to feel the same way too because the discussions in class have been getting really good these last few days. It's about human development, but it's pretty much a course on educational psychology and we do a lot of studying of adolescent development. It's been really good so far and I'm learning a lot of stuff that is applicable in my own classroom.

For example, after analyzing my own behavior in class, I think about my own students. Why are they talking so much in class? How applicable is my class in the lives of some of my students? In the past, I have been relatively willing to concede that it wouldn't really apply to some of them. And that's true and it isn't. For those students who won't pursue a career in science, science can become an art in a sense that art and literature may be arts to people who go into science...or at least for me. It's something that I can dabble in and just enjoy. I don't know. I know that's probably not their attitude toward science, but I guess that's what I'm going to work on this year. It's a different approach from what I've done in the past.

25 September 2005 2023 EDT
25 September 2005 2023 EDT
So it was a pretty awesome day today...a lot to talk about. We'll start with flag football. Our team didn't really play to our potential and we lost 14-0...but we had fun at least. Playing ball with Dave always reminds me of the old days, and the guys and girls on the team are pretty cool too. I didn't end up going out with them to Whitlow's after the game though. Instead, I maked a not-so-quick changeover in my car and then drove over to the convention center to hang out with a few thousand tree huggers.

I had a pretty good time there at the Green Festival. There was a lot of organic and fair trade stuff there, and they gave away free samples of just about everything. I learned a little bit more about coffee and tea too - now I have a much more discerning palate. Oh, and hanging out with a girl was pretty cool too. I don't do that nearly enough. Of course, today, I had to sacrifice an afternoon watching football. I don't think girls understand that so much. But hey, I had a good time today. I'm not complaining or anything. I'm just saying.

Anyway, things are going to be getting busy with these next few weekends. There's the picnic reunion with the National Guard guys and Lenny's wedding coming up. Plus I've got a bunch of homework to do for my classes and back-to-school night this week. I don't know how my priorities are going to work out, but it promises to be exciting. I'll keep you posted.

25 September 2005 0013 EDT
25 September 2005 0013 EDT
I think I'm about to call it a night. I just finished watching Sin City with Ben. It makes me want to get my books back from Thuy so I can read them again. I've always been a huge Frank Miller fan ever since I picked up my first Sin City book. After that, I found out that he'd done a lot of the Batman stuff that I enjoyed too. But yeah...lot's of good stuff going on today. I slept in a little, but I couldn't make myself sleep past 9:30 or so. The same thing happened last weekend. Then I did a little bit of exercise during the day and got a whole bunch of reading done too. While the Tech game was on, I sorted through some of the Sunday circulars and finally got around to converting a whole bunch of my old archive files from my old style over to .shtml files to take advantage of SSIs. Then Ben came over a few minutes after Jane and Ian got back. We sat around and chatted for a little while as I put on some Lisa Loeb after comments were made about my French glasses I was wearing. Then we sat around and did some studying/work until hunger hit and we drove over to Taco Bell to pick up a few pounds of burritos. Then it was back here for the movie and that was the night.

Tomorrow will be even more fun if you can imagine that. Football will kick it off in the morning. I'm playing with Dave's team on the ellipse before I do a quick changeover to meet up with a female friend over at the Green Festival. That should be a good time. I just need to do a little mapping tonight so that I don't get lost tomorrow. Well, I know I'm going to get lost. I just don't want to be late for anything. But we'll see.

24 September 2005 0327 EDT
24 September 2005 0327 EDT
Ah...long day as you can probably tell from the time I'm updating this. TJ game tonight was pretty awesome. TJ jumped out to a quick two touchdown lead within the first ten minutes of the game, but came close to giving up their lead in the fourth quarter before pulling away. I'm kinda glad it worked out like that because my South Lakes kids had a pretty good showing. In the end, though, I was pulling for TJ and it felt great to watch those last few scores. Thuy and Jane showed up along with Ian and William. The rest of my friends ditched though, but oh well. 55-44 was the final score.

After the game, Thuy and I drove out to Reston to link up with Ben, who ended up missing the game because he was stuck working. We ended up grabbing some taco bell there after driving around for a half hour and burning about 1.2 gallons of gas. Then we went back to his place to watch Sorority Boys of all movies. I think it's one of Ben's favorites. Of course, me...I was so tired from the day and being stuffed on taco bell, that I slept through a good 80% of the movie. I could hear the two of them laughing the whole time though, waking me from my slumber every few scenes. Then we just chatted for a little while and I was off again, headed home for some much needed sleep. I'll try to stay in bed until noon tomorrow and then wake up to start on some homework and reading for my classes at Mason. We'll see how well that plan unfolds.

22 September 2005 2331 EDT
22 September 2005 2331 EDT
A bunch of kids in my first period class were wearing football jerseys today, so I had to ask who they were going to be playing tonight. They answered with a big TJ. Yeah, that's right. Of course I quickly offered them my condolences for what was a forgone conclusion in my mind. Then I asked them about how it feels when they lose to a bunch of nerds like that and then continued on with class. Second block was equally amusing with some lively discussion with some students regarding definitions of words and whatnot. I felt a little better after giving them as easy quiz...because I had a small percentage (maybe 25%) of them getting zeros on the last one. For a multiple choice quiz, that's not very good. Anyway, school was school. I did one of my favorite lessons today with three of my classes about gravity and air resistance. It's a really simple demonstration, but it gets them every time.

Anyway, after school, I went to buy a few pairs of pants over at Fair Lakes before changing and then heading back to South Lakes to watch the JV football game against Jefferson with Ben. We chatted with Coach James for a little bit at the beginning, and we ran into one of Lenny's classmates over on the Jefferson sideline. He was the freshman coach and noticed Ben's old school Jefferson football t-shirt. Of course TJ ended up winning the game. Was there any doubt? But yeah, that's just a preview of tomorrow night's game at TJ. I'm hoping to get a big crowd of family and friends to head over there tomorrow. We'll probably crash the boosters table too and pick up a whole bunch of TJ stuff for the house and the car and whatnot. I can't wait.

21 September 2005 2310 EDT
21 September 2005 2310 EDT
So wow...I guess everyone is all grown up now. Jane made her online announcement today that she agreed to buy a condo that she was looking at out in the Landmark area by TJ. In the end, the new place of her own will save her a good couple hours a week on her commute to work...plus Ian will be moving in there too so that will save that'll save a lot of driving back and forth across Northern Virginia for the both of them. But yeah...come October, that'll leave me with two empty rooms after hotel Sonny is used for Lenny's wedding. Plus it looks like Lenny and Stephanie will be moving out into their own place after the wedding too...so a lot of moving coming up in the next month or so. It'll be interesting.

That's the boring stuff. In exciting news today, I finally got my oil changed. I'd been putting that off for a really long time. After that, I stopped by the parents' to grab some chow before class over at Mason. I got in a little QT with Lenny and Steph over dinner, talking about school and moving and all that stuff. They seem pretty happy these days...which is good considering all of the hectic stuff going on these days with their wedding plans and whatnot.

Other than that, not too much going on. We just got over the hump day, so I'm counting two days down until the weekend and flag/fantasy football this Sunday. I'm looking forward to both of those...and who knows, I might come up with something interesting to do on Saturday too. I ran across a commercial for this tree hugger convention in DC this weekend. But I might stay away frrom it because of all of the anti-war protestors who'll be in town this weekend. Who knows. And somewhere in there, I just need to find some time to squeeze in all of my homework.

20 September 2005 1004 EDT
20 September 2005 1004 EDT
Would you believe that I've never used my broiler until today? To be honest, I wasn't really sure how to work it...not that it is a complicated appliance. I just didn't want to burn/break anything. But yeah, Jane was talking to me about it the other day - and since I had about four dozen steaks in my freezer, I thought I'd give it a shot for dinner tonight. For those single guys like me out there, let me explain how it works. Stick meat in broiler. Turn broiler on. Wait for meat to cook. Take out and eat. I know it seems pretty simple, but that's just because it is. Use a little bit of aluminum foil to line it, and clean-up is ten times easier than the Foreman grill. So yeah, I think I'm going to be using that more in the future...at least until all of the steaks are gone.

After my department meeting at school this afternoon, I stayed after a little longer before heading home. The commute is really starting to make me smile...so much shorter compared to MV. I got home around 5:00 this afternoon and pretended to read for about three hours before waking up to go downstairs. I still have about an hour or two of reading before class tomorrow, so I'll work on that tonight. I am liking this idea of doing my homework and reading before class, but we'll see how long I can keep that up. I think as long as I stay away from girls, I'll have time to get everything done that I need to.

Other than that, it's just the same old same old. I'm starting to hit my stride and getting used to the routine now. For me, that's a very good thing. I really need to get cracking on learning everyone's name in class though. Back to school night is in a week and a half, and that's always a nice thing...knowing the names of the parents' kids when they show up. That's one of the reasons why I like to assign seats on the first day. But with me starting late, it's been a little chaotic. For three of my classes, I think I'm doing pretty well. But with my team-taught classes, I'm only matching names to faces with about a third to a half of the kids. I've got another week though. We'll see how that goes.

20 September 2005 0037 EDT
20 September 2005 0037 EDT
And to think I was going to go to sleep before the skins game ended. It's the two-minute warning right now and they're up by one. I've been sitting here at my computer ever since I got back home from class, and I was going to go to sleep about an hour ago (like I probably should have) when I started chatting a little on AIM. Class was fine today. Honestly, I was just kinda glad that I turned my paper in. I was thinking today, too, about how good it feels to have actually have done all my homework and all of my reading before class. It's so much less stressful when you're prepared. I kinda wish I thought of this while I was still in college.

Anyway...I am not quite so tired because I actually got a nap over at the parents' this afternoon before class. But I need to get an early start tomorrow...as always. One of these days, I'm actually going to catch up and maybe even get ahead.

19 September 2005 0120 EDT
19 September 2005 0120 EDT
I would write more tonight, but I just spent the last four hours typing up a five-page paper analyzing the social development of the students in the film Sixteen Candles. Would you believe that tonight was the first time I'd ever watched that movie? I know, you don't have to say it. There are so many movies I need to watch to catch up. I am slowly getting to them though. Maybe if I didn't spend all of my time watching dating shows and assorted crap, I would have more time for that stuff. Whatever...not a big deal.

Anyway, I woke up early to do a bunch of reading in my Educational Psychology book today. That was tiring, but it felt very productive. I should do that more often...read. I'd forgotten how enjoyable it could be. Anyway, after that, I joined up with Arun and Rohit at Glory Days to watch as Carson Palmer helped me to a 2-0 start in both of my fantasy leagues. I'm kinda proud of myself for not spending the whole day in front of the computer checking on my stats. Oh, and I stopped by to see the parents too. That was cool. I spent some time talking to Jane about her house-hunting and chatted with Yenny on the phone for a little bit too. Overall, a very productive day if I say so myself.

But anyway, time for bed. I've got less than four hours before my alarm goes off in the morning.

18 September 2005 0315 EDT
18 September 2005 0315 EDT
Yeah, today was much tamer than yesterday. I woke up some time around 1000h and actually started off my day by doing homework. I had a bowl of raisin bran and alternated between periods of sleep and reading on my papasan upstairs. And although I had to come back downstairs to check my e-mail every few hours, I was surprisingly successful in staying away from the computer.

I didn't leave the house until early evening when I stopped by Target to do a little shopping - you know, DVDs, a pair of pants, and tuna fish...the usual. Then it was off to the parents' for a little QT with them and the bro before ending the evening at Arun's where we just loitered and watched a couple of movies after deciding not to go out. Tomorrow, I need to get up early to finish the rest of my homework so that I will be free in the afternoon to watch football. Of course, that will require me to wake up before noon. We'll see how that goes. Anyhoo, there's nothing to worry about here. Things are going about as well as could be expected. MTF

17 September 2005 1121 EDT
17 September 2005 1121 EDT
So Arun is only in town for a few more days, so we were definitely going to hang out last night. The only thing in question was what we were going to do. We tend to have a problem with deciding sometimes...and it's not that it really matters. We honestly have a great time no matter what we do...you know, as long as we have each other and all of that touchy-feely stuff. I know that's cheesy, but it's true. Anyway, out of the desert of ideas came Ben's suggestion that we go to a club to meet up with some of his other friends. Ha! Have you seen me dance? In my professional life, as a teacher and a soldier, I try to play this role of the straight guy, all business. Believe it or not, it's not really a stretch to play someone who's as stiff as a board...and it shows when I dance. But hey, everyone else seemed like they were up for it and there really weren't all too many other options on the horizon...so what the heck. As the sun set behind the beautiful Appalachian mountains, I started driving in the other direction, meeting up with Arun, Ben, Jackie, and Thuy.

We started off by grabbing lunch there by Arun's house at the Hopsfrog Grill. That was a pretty good start, and then it was off to DC for a little adventure. For me, I try to take every opportunity to drive around the city just because I have no idea how to get around. I figure if I get lost enough times, I will eventually know my way around. That technique has worked for just about any other city I've been in, but I haven't ventured into DC enough for my efforts to pay off yet. On the other hand, I usually don't do this experimenting with passengers in my car. I'm not sure if everyone else appreciated the fact that I was learning my way around. But hey, it's cheaper than everyone taking the metro in, you know? Anyway, we definitely got lost last night. I'll blame it on the fact that we were looking for the wrong intersection to begin with...one that didn't even exist no less. But after about a half an hour circling DC and dropping off a few unnamed passengers who really, really had to go to the bathroom, we found our way to our final destination.

Long story short, it took me about an hour or two sitting/standing by the wall and talking before I finally loosened up a little and ventured about six to seven feet deeper onto the dance floor and started swaying back and forth with what rhythm I could muster. It was a pretty pathetic showing, but a small step for mankind and all that. But yeah, around two or three in the morning, we wrapped up and headed back towards Fairfax for a bite to eat. IHOP was completely packed and the line stretched out into the parking lot. So we actually ended up overruling that decision and went with Denny's instead, where we were served by a Polish guy named Dariusz. Anyway, an hour later, we were done and everyone drove back home. I myself arrived at my door some time around 0430h and crashed on my sofa about a minute later. Good times, huh?

16 September 2005 0015 EDT
16 September 2005 0015 EDT
I keep on doing this thing where I stay up way too late doing random things. Usually, I'm just doing some fantasy research in between lesson plans or grading or laundry. But honestly, all I really need right now is some sleep.

Anyway, not much to update on school stuff except that we're coming up on my first weekend. I'm really looking forward to that. I have a lot of reading and writing to do this weekend, and I should probably take care of that early on before I get too busy with the ladies, you know?

Oh well...I've kinda forgotten everything that I wanted to write about before, so I'll just wrap up for today. Oh, I think I wanted to write about stuff that we discussed in class yesterday...did more Myers-Briggs stuff and personality type analysis. It was a lot of fun. In the end, it just gives me an excuse and a way to explain away all of my inadequacies and shortcomings. That's one thing I like a lot about psychology. No matter how screwed up you are, it makes you feel normal because they have a name for whatever it is that you've got. Okay, enough chit chat for now. Time for bed.

14 September 2005 1511 EDT
14 September 2005 1511 EDT
So now that I've shared my class website and materials with my students, there is no doubt that they'll slowly find their way to this site. So before I go on any further, let me reiterate that I bear no ill will towards South Lakes. In fact, I can appreciate the situation that everyone was in when I was hired and I'm just glad to once again be in front of a classroom teaching kids again. Okay?

With that said, let's gossip. I went to the school cafeteria and bought lunch today. It must've been the first time in a decade, plus or minus a few years. Anyway, it was a chicken filet sandwich, fries, an apple, and a carton of milk for $2.75. Not bad, you know? Anyway, Rohit has requested to stop by for lunch one of these days, so I'm gonna have to get in real tight with the cafeteria crew. Before I left the States two years ago, I actually took a girl out on a date the the Chili's in Tysons and Rohit was working there. That was an interesting time...though I haven't talked to that girl since getting back home. But yeah...go school lunch. It's just as good as I remember it to be.

I've got third block off every day, so my lunch can be interesting. Since my off period is the one with lunch, I end up having a nearly two-hour long block where I get to mix work and play a little. I also get to pick and choose who I eat lunch with. I've had one lunch with the math department so far, one with my fellow physics teachers, and today was spent with the social studies department. Oh was that an interesting crew. Since I don't really know anyone yet around here yet, I won't shoot myself in the foot and say something that I'll regret later. But after a year of eating in the chow hall at Bagram and down at Ghazni, it was refreshing to have such lively banter in the lunch room. I'll leave it at that.

Clothes...that's been tough so far this year. There is so much anxiety in the morning when I have to choose what to wear because I'm just not used to doing it. If I could go with shorts or jeans, I'd be fine, but my wardrobe just isn't what I remember it to be. I don't know if that's because Lenny has some of my teacher clothes now or if I'm just pickier. But yeah, today was a bad day and I was so mismatched that I felt somewhat uncomfortable being out in public. I had on some blue cargo pants with a light tan short-sleeved shirt and a maroon tie with little yellow ticks. I don't know. I may volunteer to go overseas for another year just so that I don't have to worry about choosing what to wear every day. There's something very comforting about that.

Anyhoo...I've got a bunch of work to do these days, so I need to stop blogging so much and get to it. On my list for this afternoon includes tux fitting for my brother's wedding, grading, Staples visit, and of course my three hour class at Mason. With some luck, I can even sneak in a nap. We'll see.

13 September 2005 2218 EDT
13 September 2005 2218 EDT
I don't consider myself a big supporter of Bush, but it's been a frustrating last week or so watching as everyone in the media seemed to be blaming so much of the Katrina disaster on the President. Ben Stein wrote a rebuttal of sorts to these accusations and presents a rather amusing yet straightforward argument for the American Spectator. That's all I'll say about that.

Today was day two for me at South Lakes. It went about as good as yesterday. As always, the kids are great. My schedule is a little different this year. I have three periods of Active Physics and two periods of Physics I. That gives me a little more freedom, but I can't be as much of a math nazi as I've been in the past now that I have more conceptual-type classes. We'll see how well I adjust. If not so good, I may end up shifting to teach math next year. Who knows. Anyway, I'm feeling a little overwhelmed right now. I mean, I know how to teach, but it's just been very hard to get back on pace after starting nearly two weeks behind. Not only did I miss a week of prep work at the school, but now I have to take care of all of that planning while I am teaching and learning names and taking six credits of graduate work over at Mason. The only consolation is that I have a stay of execution on the National Guard drills until November. If I had to do that in addition to all of this, I think I would wind up falling asleep behind the wheel at some point and driving off the road.

So...physics teachers...they're an interesting bunch. I had lunch with the two other physics teachers at school today. Lunch for me was one of those flavor sealed pouches of tuna. Yeah, I've never been good at preparing lunch for school. My preparation usually consists of scanning my cabinets in the morning as I hurry out the door. Plus, the food I grab is usually enough just for one meal and I split it up between breakfast and lunch. But the other physics teachers aren't much better. One of them has a box of food that he bought and just leaves in the equipment closet. So when lunch time rolls around, he goes into the box and mixes and matches until a meal is created. I guess that isn't a bad idea. When I get around to it, I may end up doing the same. It'll take me a while to rebuild my goldfish, tuna fish, and canned soup supply at school.

So yeah...I'd write more, but I am going to actually start on some work so that I will actually have some time to sleep tonight. Hopefully, I'll be all caught up by this weekend and things can settle down. Who knows.

12 September 2005 2327 EDT
12 September 2005 2327 EDT
Yeah, so it's been a long day today. School was definitely interesting. I left the house around 0545h and showed up about twenty-five minutes later...not too bad of a commute. First period was a little...trying to think of a good word for it. Hmm...basically, the school didn't tell the teacher I was replacing that I was going to replace him until Friday after school. Yeah, so that isn't really good for anyone. He actually came in during the weekend to clear some stuff out for me. Anyway, he was a really nice guy and worked with me quite a bit today. I also met with a bunch of other support staff there at South Lakes. I got my e-mail password reset so that I could check it again. 1660 new messages were waiting there for me when I finally got back online. I haven't really looked at them yet, and I'm considering purging my inbox without even bothering with the whole mess. I'd hate to think that I missed something important though...though I can't imagine anyone sending me anything important to my fcps address during this last year.

Anyway, after school, I finally cleaned out my car and brought all of the 100+ pounds of school supplies from my back seat into my new classroom. It took a little while to set up some things and I made a small list in my head of more things that I needed to pick up. It's really hard not having that full week before the start of the school year to get settled in. Heck, right now, I can barely find my way around the school. I'm hoping I can at least get that fixed by the end of the week. And hopefully by then, the place will feel like home.

After hanging out at school for a few hours, I drove over to the parents to hang out for a little bit before class. I was hoping to take a short nap before class too, but no one was home. Of course, I haven't had a key to the house since coming home from Afghanistan, so I hung around for a minute or so before heading over to campus. There, I spent about half an hour napping in my car before heading to the Johnson Center to grab some dinner before class. Class itself wasn't too much to write home about. It looks like it'll be a lot of work though. I already read a chapter and a half and I have another 70 pages or so and a five-page paper to write by Monday of next week. The class composition doesn't seem too bad though. There was actually some decent discussion...and a couple of cute girls. You know, that never hurts. Anyway, time for bed now. I'm pretty exhausted.